MARATHON YOUTH SERVICES
NEWSLETTER
December 1, 2004
Volume 4, Issue 12

As I type this, snow is falling outside! Actually, it’s quite pretty and certainly seasonal now that December has arrived. I can imagine that scenes like the one below will become common throughout central Wisconsin in the days and weeks to come. Someone told me this morning that an obscure snowfall prediction has us getting in excess of 40 measurable snowfalls this winter! I’ll have to see that to believe it; especially if the recent past is any indicator. I’m sure it would be welcome news to some of our staff and residents who so thoroughly enjoy winter sports.
With the Holiday Season once again upon us, the community is showing its famous generosity as in past years. MYS was again recently presented a check by Sam’s Club, this time in the amount of $500.00! This represents their contribution to our efforts to open our mental health clinic; a contribution that will be put to good use. This will help us continue to give back to the community…
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CONTENTS
Director’s Column
Sam’s Club Gift!
Seasonal Thoughts From Rick
Reynolds Group Home Update
Adult Programs
Director’s Column
A current popular feature in the local Wausau Daily Herald is called
"Why My Job Rocks!" Readers are encouraged to submit their thoughts of
enthusiasm for the job they do every day. It’s always good to read of
people’s positive attitudes about their respective pursuits….That
inspired our Director to write the following:
Why my job rocks…
When I realized there weren’t a lot of jobs that were going to pay me to
drive real fast, I found the next fastest paced job; that of working
with young people and their families with the most awesome team of
people in the terrific community. It takes a whole town to raise a
child, and sometimes when things go awry, it takes a few more.
As Executive Director of Marathon Youth Services, Inc. and a licensed
therapist, I have the privilege of working with our community’s youth
who need treatment and supervision at Reynolds Group Home, and young
adults with special needs in the supervised living settings at Grand
Place, Hamilton House and Prospect Place. These young people bring
issues, challenges and plenty of memorable moments.
My job rocks because I work with great young people, but also because I
work with the best co-workers that have dedicated themselves to making
the success of our work outstanding. Our team of bright, mature and
eternally optimistic staff not only get the job done, but they do it
with style and personality that make lasting changes with the people we
work.
Everyday they make my day and bring humor and a lighter side to some
pretty intense situations. I also have the opportunity to work with so
many other associated professionals that are doing their best for our
community, and maybe your family. Thanks… Doug Adams
Sam’s Club of Wausau recently gave MYS $500 to apply to
our programs, specifically for assistance in opening our new mental
health clinic. MYS was one of 18 non-profit recipients, for a total of
$9,000 in community support. We are grateful for Sam’s Club's continued
support of our services in their frequent donations as well as their
"big check day"!

Some thoughts of the Season from Rick Ferree, Program Coordinator at
Reynolds Group Home…always worth the read.
The holiday season is upon us in once more….the whirlwind of days,
months and years continues, and as observed by many of us reaching the
crest of ‘The Hill’ or beyond, it only seems as if the velocity of this
thing called time only increases. I take care to invest myself daily in
the things for which I am grateful.
Amongst the foremost in my mind today……
The blessing of life……
A beautiful and loving wife and mother of my children….
High achieving children, compassionate, considerate and kind
The gift of health, for myself and those I love…..
A handful of true friends….
Trees and rocks and streams….
The wind in my hair……
The capacity to think……
The promise of tomorrow…..
The opportunity to contribute……..
The list goes on……
Enveloped in all of these spoken and unspoken…….is a passion for living.
A true passion for living is to have passion for giving. The images of
an orphan boy and a drum…..a penny in the old mans hat…..and the warming
of the frigid heart of the grinch…..a story in tune with the spirit of
the season…..restoring our youth for only a moment….removing us from the
commercial consumption and excesses of the season…... Giving is as
simple as an open door, a smile, an acknowledgement of those near you, a
sensitivity to individual needs…..giving is community and a notion given
us by HE who gave all.
In this season, let us be conscious of the hurt around us…..the vacuum
in so many lives, the desperation and need, the loneliness and
sorrow…and give of ourselves, of whatever may be of our
avail….experience the truest of joys in the giving…..
….as spoken so eloquently by our green friend in his moment of
enlightenment…..the season is not found in packages, boxes or bags……
Rick Ferree
In addition to sharing his occasional inspirational thoughts, Rick
continues to provide the spirited leadership to the programming at
Reynolds Group Home. Supported by an absolutely superb staff
(editorial comment), RGH often achieves the seemingly impossible!
November was again a month of continuing accomplishments for the
residents, and staff.
This month we were joined by a new resident as we prepare another for
his discharge. Thao is doing extremely well in his transition to home
and is looking forward to discharge on December 22nd.
Josh got a job with Shopko this month working as a cashier and is
enjoying it immensely. Also this month, Karl was accepted as a manager
for the Wausau East Freshman basketball team. Way to go Karl!
Following their participation in Make A Difference Day, the guys took on
additional raking projects and all put out a great effort. They also
continued their regular volunteer activities at the Kennedy
Rehabilitation Center in Schofield.
With winter now setting in, the team at RGH is looking into winter
recreational activities in anticipation of the snow arriving soon. Any
ideas for us?
Remember this picture? That was Mike S enjoying the snow last year at
Prospect Place. While waiting for this year’s snow, the guys are
busy with many other pursuits.
Mike P and Adam continue their Wednesday night basketball, and both have
volunteered to help out with the Special Olympics "Breakfast With Santa"
at Mom’s Café in Schofield to raise money for the Special Olympics
program. Adam also volunteered to serve lunch at Northland Lutheran High
School, the site of their basketball pursuits. He also joined the guys
from Grand Place for a bowling tournament in Eau Claire on November 5th
and 6th. They reported having a great time staying overnight
in a motel and participating in the competition.
Additional activities included Adam joining his grandfather in the choir
at Mount Olive Lutheran Church and with Mike S, volunteering at the
consignment shop twice. All the guys have been attending basketball
games at the area high schools and continuing their regular YMCA
activities. Somehow, Mike S still finds time to continue in his part
time job at Papillon’s Pizza in Schofield. Also, the guys have been
having Packer Parties on weekends and enjoying the Pack’s current
winning streak.
Our adult program also has a new staff member this month. Brian
Lorence joined the staff on November 10. Brian grew up in the
Owen-Withee area of Wisconsin and attended college in Vermont,
UW-Stevens Point and Minnesota. He came to Wausau this past summer and
is helping start a new church, Wausau Vineyards.
Brian reports a wide variety of interests and abilities to include
mountaineering, photography, being a musician. We’re all very pleased to
have Brian join our team.
With Thanksgiving celebrated this past month, all the young men spent
time with their families for part of the holiday. Hamilton House
also had a Thanksgiving meal for everyone as well. They also had another
celebration earlier in the month for Mark’s 21st birthday on
November 11. Mark also managed to get in the action on preparing the
turkey.

Mark is a very busy young man…between his job at Northern Valley
Workshop, time with his girl friend and the many activities of Hamilton
House the days are pretty full!
It was recently announced that a favorite place for the guys, High
Roller in Weston will be closing its doors soon. The guys are continuing
to enjoy roller skating as long as possible and most recently went
skating on November 19th. On November 12th they
also made a trip to Dale’s Weston Lanes to hear a rock band. Our most
recent addition at Hamilton House, Kevin, has joined in many of these
activities as well. He also continues his work in the GOAL Lab at
Northcentral Technical College in preparation for admittance to the
Automotive Program at NTC.
Grand Place became home to yet another young man this month.
Shawn moved in on November 1st and has adjusted to his new
home quite well. We’re certainly pleased to have him with us. Shawn
graduated from DCE High School and works full time at Northern Valley
workshop. He is a devoted fan of country music, John Deere and NASCAR.
Shawn was with us in time to join in the fun for the trip to Eau Claire
on November 5th and 6th. He joined Adam, Pat, John
and Skyler for the overnight at the motel and the tournament.
On November 12th the guys were joined by Mike S from Prospect
Place for baking pies. They baked 1 cherry and 5 apple pies. The next
day they all went to the Wausau Center Mall and out for lunch.
Every Wednesday is still Special Olympics basketball night, and the guys
have now started attending bible study at the First United Methodist
Church on Monday nights. During the day, Pat has started a volunteer job
at the Aurora Day Program and also continues to work at the YMCA on
Mondays.
December is now upon us, and with it the Christmas Season. Everyone is
looking forward to the spirit of the season, decorating and preparing to
celebrate!
Watch "Child and Family Focus"
with Doug Adams and Dr. John Kolhoven
every Tuesday at 7:00 AM and 10:30 PM, and Wednesday at 5:30 PM.
Local Public Access Television Channel 3
If you have any questions or program requests, feel free
to contact Doug at 715842-3240 or dadams@marathonyouthservices.org. We are
always interested in your thoughts or comments.