MARATHON YOUTH SERVICES
NEWSLETTER
June 1, 2003
Volume 3, Issue 6

My recollections of Memorial Day had it occurring at the end of May….now it’s
"conveniently" on the last Monday of the month. I also remember it to be a day
of parades, flags, bands and remembrance. Somehow, it’s now turned into an
extended holiday weekend, for camping, fishing, picnicking, and generally
playing. Remembrance is only an afterthought! I suppose it’s no different than
July 4th, Thanksgiving or Christmas. They’ve all been distorted a
bit, with their original purposes lost in the commercialization of the day.
But the real purpose of Memorial Day has recently taken on a renewed purpose.
With the memories of Viet Nam and Gulf War I still fresh in most our minds, our
collective failures at foreign policy have given us yet more cause to pause and
remember, and thank, those brave men and women who are called upon to make the
ultimate sacrifice.
I would like to suggest that we all take time out to personally thank a veteran
for the efforts they’ve made on our behalf, even if you might not agree with the
policies they are sent to represent. Their sacrifice is no less great! I
personally want to thank Larry, Dale, Dennis and Dean. I would guess we all have
friends, family and acquaintances who we should thank. Take a minute and do it.
Speaking of Dean Hess, we at MYS take this opportunity to also congratulate him
and his new bride on their recent marriage. Dean continues on active duty in the
Middle East, but came home long enough to get married! We continue to look
forward to his return to his duties as Associate Principal at Horace Mann Middle
School. I’m sure he and his wife do also.
editor
Read on about the activities and programs of MYS. Please visit us online at www.marathonyouthservices.org, and feel free to direct any inquiries to Doug at 715-842-3240, or email us at admin@marathonyouthservices.org.
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CONTENTS
Director’s Column
Thoughts About Our Staff
Hamilton House Repairs
Staff News!
Director’s Column
I’m so glad spring is here….Racing, jet skiing, motorcycling,
vacationing and sunshine! These are a few of my favorite things…
Things "at the shop" have been very busy. Prospect Place is now open. I am
very proud of the staff we’ve acquired and of the great first two young
men that have taken residency there; much favorable activity has been
developed there so far. Elsewhere in this month’s newsletter is a
description of all the terrific work taking place at Hamilton House, truly
making that home one of the gems of the neighborhood. Reynolds Group Home
now has an advanced group of adolescents that will be generating several
outstanding graduates of the program in the near future.
Other significant areas would be the expansion of our Board of Directors
up to seven members, and the development of sub-committees to address the
areas of finance, building and grounds, community networking and fund
raising. In the near future our new members will be introduced. Marathon
Youth Services is also pursuing a mental health clinic license and more
full time therapists to better serve our clients and our community.
The MYS Racing Program has been excelling as of late with already 3 team
victories. One at Marshfield Super Speedway and two at State Park
Speedway. Several of our residents have been active "in the pits", and our
group has been active in cheering the team on to victories, and even
cheering our spins…Our Number 15 racecar representing MYS is going to be
featured in a Northwood’s Alliance for Children photomontage in a
conference at Tulsa, Oklahoma this month.
Has anyone been tuning in to the fantastic episodes of "Child and Family
Focus" on local public access Channel 10 lately? One of our recent guests
was the star of DSS, Carolee Fox. This month will feature Honorable Judge
Greg Grau, and John Muir Middle School Counselor Bonnie Rudie. Tune in at
7:00 am and 10:30 pm Tuesdays, and 5:30 pm Wednesdays. We’ve had some
terrific guests and great discussions. Thanks go out to all of them, and
to our future stars as well.
We at Marathon Youth Services look forward to our summertime with camping
trips, boating and skiing, jet skiing, fishing, picnic days, some racing,
and a whole bunch of sunshine!
Doug Adams, Director
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In the years since 1978 that I have been affiliated with Marathon Youth
Services and its parent organization, Weeks’ Family Group Home, I have
always been impressed by the dedication and caring displayed by the staff.
It goes without saying that they are all well trained, compassionate
individuals who feel a strong commitment to the work they do. They also
bring with them their own individual interests and talents, often shared
with the residents of all three of our facilities.
There is of course, Doug A with his life-long interest in auto racing. He
now shares his enthusiasm with the young men, and with the staff. The guys
get the chance to work on a race car and a close up look and "the pits" if
they would like. The staff gets an opportunity to try their hand at
driving each year also. Here Sue M shows off her skills…
Former staff member Joe K was fond of sharing his enthusiasm for fishing
and boating with the guys, taking them and other staff to his lake home up
north on several occasions. We miss Joe!
But many others, like Sarah, Mike, Scott and Darwin love taking the guys
camping and fishing, and are planning several events this summer. Suzanne
has generously shared her time and excitement for her broad and varied
interests, to include her love of horses and all outdoor activities. We
now have staff training to become certified life guards simply so they can
take the residents to more swimming opportunities.
Not only are the staff interesting and enthusiastic, but I’m struck by the
intellectual level of many of them as well. They so often display flashes
of genius in their perceptions and expressions, always sharing their
wisdom with residents and their fellow employees. One recent example is a
piece written by Rick, coordinator at RGH:
As in all occupational endeavors, all days are good days, some are just
better than others. The work we do with our young men and their families
is consistently gratifying, as we extract learning opportunities from each
interaction and each collision, emerging with what may be argued are among
life’s greatest insights to this thing called family. The dynamics of
human relations are exposed in nuance and the sublime, appreciation for
others often veiled in the battle for control.
The passion for giving of oneself to others is a gift pervasive and deep
in this organization. The collaborative efforts of residents, families and
staff reap benefits we can often observe, but cannot measure. Though the
work is often quite hard, achievement in human terms brings the incentive
to continue. To be consistent, to be a resource, to stay the course, even
in the face of rejection calls upon the greatest of character, one
determined to foster conciliation, kindness, and respect for self and
others.
Today, as always, I arrived to work early in the day, to support guys off
to school and to resume the coordination of the agenda for their care and
personal growth. As I settled in to my grove, preparing for the
introductory call of the day, I found my name written on a small scrap of
paper, folded and affixed to the phone receiver with tape. I removed it
and opened it to find…"Rick-thank’s for all you hard wrok at working
with me and I say thank’s to all staff. Love Curt."
The words of this aspiring young man capture the profound emotion and
precept on his life that spelling nor punctuation can obscure…Simple, yet
with clarity to we who have shared his enormous challenge, endured his
rage and admonishment, and each time returned to the plate in his support
so he may learn to keep his eye on the ball.
I can only respond in offering OUR thanks to this young man…and all he has
given in return…All days are good days…and be assured, it doesn’t get any
better than this…
Rick Ferree
As we’re joined by new staff, I have no doubt they will bring with them a
new range of abilities, interests and experiences to share with our
residents. I’ll keep you posted…
Since Hamilton House became the property of Marathon Youth Services,
the work to improve on it has never stopped. Initially, most work was done
by staff on their free time, much donated! What started out as a somewhat
neglected older house has now turned in to a fine older home; proud to be
part of a fine old neighborhood on Wausau’s central eastside. We continue
to strive to be the best neighbors we can be, and hopefully are
succeeding. Staff has had an opportunity to meet many of the neighbors
personally, and to invite them in for a visit. We continue to look for
ways to be a good community member.
Staff is very happy with the fully remodeled and updated kitchen!
In recent months, several additional remodeling projects have been
completed at Hamilton House. All the windows have now been replaced, a new
roof installed and a second bathroom is finishing completion this week.
Currently pending are plans to pave the driveway and parking pad, and new
siding. Our intention is to keep with the architectural scheme of the
neighborhood. I’ll keep our readers updated as we progress, and we
continue our invitation for you to come by for a visit.
It was reported last month that we’ve acquired some new staff members
at Prospect Place. This month, Larry Austin has agreed to write a
brief bio to introduce himself…
My name is Larry Austin, and I’ve been a certified nursing assistant
for nineteen years. I’ve worked in hospitals, AODA facilities, mental
health facilities, nursing homes, community based residential facilities
and home health care. I have worked with adolescents, frail elderly,
cerebral palsy patients, suicide risks and developmentally disabled
individuals.
God is the first most important one to me, then comes myself, then my
family. My family values are very strong, which would include spending
time with them, eating meals together, and being there for moral support.
Then comes my extended family and I feel it’s just as important to be
there for them for whatever reason.
My volunteer experience includes volunteering at a local nursing home with
outings, and volunteering in the judicial system with AODA meetings.
My personal goal in life is to keep making a difference in people’s lives.
I enjoy working with adolescents and young adults (as I once was one) and
I feel that everyone should have a chance to be loved and be shown that
someone cares.
God motivates me the most and then seeing people turn their lives around
for the better. And, just seeing people happy.
One experience I had in my professional life stands out…One time when I
was working with a nursing agency I was sent to work at a hospital. I
arrived there early so I was just sitting in the parking lot when a car
came flying through. I knew something was wrong, so I ran up to the car
and this lady was having a baby! I got help and then we finished the
delivery on the sidewalk. They brought the baby up to the unit I was
working on a few hours later. It was a great experience, knowing that I
helped bring a new life into this world.
Larry Austin, Residential Care Worker
Just another example of the highly qualified and motivated staff we’re
fortunate to have at Marathon Youth Services. For more on our staff, see
our web sit.
If you have any questions or program requests, feel free to
contact Doug at 715842-3240 or dadams@marathonyouthservices.org. We are always
interested in your thoughts or comments.
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