MARATHON YOUTH SERVICES

NEWSLETTER

October 1, 2003

Volume 3, Issue 10

 

 

Delicious autumn!  My very soul is wedded to it,
and if I were a bird I would fly about the earth
seeking the successive autumns.
-   George Eliot

With the arrival of fall, racing season is finally over. It’s time to move on to other things. At least that’s what we tell Doug at this time of year. He’s never really convinced until he can get out a snowmobile and race some more. We’re all more than a little reluctant to give up on summer, but at least we have the World Series and football season to ease the transition…at least for some of us. And this year we have a resident playing football for Wausau East, which makes the season that much more interesting.
We continue to offer new opportunities for our residents, at all three of our homes. We are currently at full capacity at each house, and expect Prospect Place to receive its third and fourth permanent placements real soon. At RGH, we have boys nearing program graduation and will have a couple of vacancies in the coming months. It’s really been an exciting time! If you anticipate a placement need in the near future, give us a call and talk it over. Maybe we can help.

 

Fall is my favorite season in Los Angeles, watching the birds change color and fall from the trees. —David Letterman

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CONTENTS

Notes From Reynolds Group Home

A Day At The Track!

Mike’s Friend Charlotte

Asset Of The Month

 

As usual, the beginning of a new school semester has been hectic at times, but always interesting, and rewarding for both residents and staff of Reynolds Group Home. In addition to all the regular school activities, this year two of our young men started the year involved in athletic programs at Wausau East. Matt showed an interest in running cross country, and Darrick is playing football in what looks like another very promising season for the Lumberjacks. In fact, Darrick has seen playing time every week, both as an occasional JV member and as a varsity defensive player. While this has caused Rick Ferree a little "conflict of interest" (his team would be the Merrill Blue Jays), nothing has stopped the staff and residents from enjoying and cheering for Darrick. It certainly adds an element of interest to the weekly games at Thom Field…

In a repeat of what has become a nearly annual event at RGH, staff and residents made a trip to the Columbia Correctional Institute at Portage, WI this month. The following report of the activity was submitted by staff member Mike McCabe:

On Thursday, September 18, Tim Harvey of the Storefront Alternative School invited all of our guys to accompany him and the young men of his program to the ‘Reaching Out Program’ at the Columbia Correctional Facility in Portage. This is the second time we have participated in the program with Tim. Nick Simonis and I took our seven boys down to the facility. Prior to our visit, the boys were asked to write a two page paper profiling their backgrounds, behaviors and current life circumstances.

The Reaching Out Program is facilitated by inmates at the prison in order to expose youths to what prison is all about. The inmates "reach out" to the boys to tell them to avoid the mistakes they made that led to them being incarcerated in prison. The inmates related their presentation to the boys and addressed some of the inappropriate choices they may be doing now and how those same things are what started them on their way to prison.

Sharing the realities of prison life was a very emotional experience for the inmates, our boys and the staff that were looking on. We were allowed to tour the facility and talk to the inmates. The inmate group did a good job of being very direct on how that was not the place they wanted to be…and if they could do it all over again…

Time will tell about how much each of the boys learned from the trip. Each person pulls away different things to reflect on when you go into a prison. I am quite certain that this is a trip that none of our boys will soon forget.


Michael T. McCabe, youth worker





















You may recall that last month Doug Adams extended an offer to one and all to experience the thrill of driving a racecar on a real track. In fact, several people turned out and tried their hand, resulting in the following report submitted by Doug:

How many of you ever dreamed of driving a real racecar? Well, as you know from last month’s newsletter, we arranged for such an opportunity and scheduled a ‘Day At The Track’.

A handful of brave souls turned out for what was a perfect day at Golden Sands Speedway, a premier Wisconsin race facility. We arrived the morning of September 9th and were given access to the track. We fired up both of our fine Team Marathon Youth Services, Inc. racecars (with 26+ wins to their credit) and took to the track. We had four rookies

and two experienced drivers.
As each rookie took their maiden voyage, an experienced driver would first lead them around awhile, then begin to drive behind, beside and around the other car to create a true racing experience. All of the new drivers were able to get their cars up to a reasonable ‘race’ speed (especially when they stopped using the brakes), and truly experienced the thrill of the track and car. We even experienced one ‘spin’ as one new driver reached for the limits of his race machine and ‘looped it’ coming out of turn two. We said we would run until we ran out of gas, tires or cars, and we did just that. Most all the gas, several tires and even a clutch were consumed in our 4 hour experience.

Several residents of Hamilton House had the opportunity for a ride around the track, with the dream of coming back to drive. Several drivers reported that they needed to stop on their way home from the track to ‘recover' from their experience. However, all reported it to be an awesome time, and definitely have a new perspective on the racing experience.

What ever happened to the young lady from The Passage, or Dan from Community Corrections? Call and let’s talk about next year!
Doug Adams

For the past months of summer, Mike, a resident at Prospect Place has befriended a barn spider he’s named Charlotte. She has been living in the corner reaches of the front window at PP, going about her business quite unaware of Mike’s diligent eye. Mike has shown such persistent interest in Charlotte that staff has encouraged him to learn more about barn spiders, and write a brief piece for the newsletter. With Shanon’s assistance, Mike submitted the following picture and article, both of which are also on our web site (www.marathonyouthservices.org):






























She enjoys us catching months, June bugs, and any other bugs that meet her taste and placing them in her web. We enjoy watching her spin and repair her web in the morning; she works very hard and puts in many hours at doing this.
At first we thought that she was a common house spider and that she was going to have babies but we where wrong. Mike spent many hours looking on the internet and in a book that Josh brought to see what kind of spider she was.
Charlotte has been a joy to watch over the last couple of months. With fall and winter right around the corner we will miss her when she goes off to hibernate. I guess that we will have to find something else to write about then.

Mike S. (and Shanon)

I’m sure Mike would be thrilled to hear your thoughts about his interest in Charlotte. He’s willing to write more for the newsletter and web site, but would like to know what his readers are interested in…send him comments and questions at prospectplace@charter.net.



Each month Debi McGregor, Community Initiatives Coordinator of The United Way of Marathon County is kind enough to provide an Asset Of The Month. I thought the current asset would be of interest to our readers.











Marathon County


Asset Building for Adults

November: Asset #21 – Achievement Motivation

Kids who have this asset are motivated to do well in school.

Clearly communicate to all children that you value learning, that you think school is their most important job and that you want and expect them to take it seriously. Set your expectations high, according to each student’s individual and unique interests and capabilities.

Parents, get and stay connected with teachers. Don’t wait for report cards to find out how your children are doing in school. Encourage motivation from the inside out – tap into their interests and passions and find ways to connect them to what is being taught in school. Avoid "paying" kids for learning with money, rewards or evaluative praise – that becomes motivation from the outside in and will not encourage long-term results.

Be a lifelong learner and learn along with your children. Plan vacations to historical sites, visit the state capitol as a family, and watch educational television together. Read the same books and talk about them. Brainstorm questions that all of you are curious about and then or surf the web to research the answers.

Health Communities – Health Youth Initiatives
137 River Drive Wausau, WI 54403
715-828-2927
E-mail: dmcgregor@unitedwaymc.org

If you have any questions or program requests, feel free to contact Doug at 715842-3240 or dadams@marathonyouthservices.org. We are always interested in your thoughts or comments.

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