MARATHON YOUTH SERVICES
NEWSLETTER
October 1, 2003
Volume 3, Issue 10

Delicious autumn! My very soul is wedded to it,
and if I were a bird I would fly about the earth
seeking the successive autumns.
- George Eliot
Fall is my favorite season in Los Angeles, watching the birds change color and fall from the trees. —David Letterman
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CONTENTS
Notes From Reynolds Group Home
A Day At The Track!
Mike’s Friend Charlotte
Asset Of The Month
As usual, the beginning of a new school semester has been hectic at
times, but always interesting, and rewarding for both residents and staff of
Reynolds Group Home. In addition to all the regular school
activities, this year two of our young men started the year involved in
athletic programs at Wausau East. Matt showed an interest in running cross
country, and Darrick is playing football in what looks like another very
promising season for the Lumberjacks. In fact, Darrick has seen playing time
every week, both as an occasional JV member and as a varsity defensive
player. While this has caused Rick Ferree a little "conflict of interest"
(his team would be the Merrill Blue Jays), nothing has stopped the staff and
residents from enjoying and cheering for Darrick. It certainly adds an
element of interest to the weekly games at Thom Field…
In a repeat of what has become a nearly annual event at RGH, staff and
residents made a trip to the Columbia Correctional Institute at Portage, WI
this month. The following report of the activity was submitted by staff
member Mike McCabe:
On Thursday, September 18, Tim Harvey of the Storefront Alternative
School invited all of our guys to accompany him and the young men of his
program to the ‘Reaching Out Program’ at the Columbia Correctional Facility
in Portage. This is the second time we have participated in the program with
Tim. Nick Simonis and I took our seven boys down to the facility. Prior to
our visit, the boys were asked to write a two page paper profiling their
backgrounds, behaviors and current life circumstances.
The Reaching Out Program is facilitated by inmates at the prison in order to
expose youths to what prison is all about. The inmates "reach out" to the
boys to tell them to avoid the mistakes they made that led to them being
incarcerated in prison. The inmates related their presentation to the boys
and addressed some of the inappropriate choices they may be doing now and
how those same things are what started them on their way to prison.
Sharing the realities of prison life was a very emotional experience for the
inmates, our boys and the staff that were looking on. We were allowed to
tour the facility and talk to the inmates. The inmate group did a good job
of being very direct on how that was not the place they wanted to be…and if
they could do it all over again…
Time will tell about how much each of the boys learned from the trip. Each
person pulls away different things to reflect on when you go into a prison.
I am quite certain that this is a trip that none of our boys will soon
forget.
Michael T. McCabe, youth worker
You may recall that last month Doug Adams extended an offer to one and all
to experience the thrill of driving a racecar on a real track. In fact,
several people turned out and tried their hand, resulting in the following
report submitted by Doug:
How many of you ever dreamed of driving a real racecar? Well, as you know
from last month’s newsletter, we arranged for such an opportunity and
scheduled a ‘Day At The Track’.
A handful of brave souls turned out for what was a perfect day at Golden
Sands Speedway, a premier Wisconsin race facility. We arrived the morning of
September 9th and were given access to the track. We fired up
both of our fine Team Marathon Youth Services, Inc. racecars (with 26+ wins
to their credit) and took to the track. We had four rookies
and two experienced drivers.
As each rookie took their maiden voyage, an experienced driver would first
lead them around awhile, then begin to drive behind, beside and around the
other car to create a true racing experience. All of the new drivers were
able to get their cars up to a reasonable ‘race’ speed (especially when they
stopped using the brakes), and truly experienced the thrill of the track and
car. We even experienced one ‘spin’ as one new driver reached for the limits
of his race machine and ‘looped it’ coming out of turn two. We said we would
run until we ran out of gas, tires or cars, and we did just that. Most all
the gas, several tires and even a clutch were consumed in our 4 hour
experience.
Several residents of Hamilton House had the opportunity for a ride around
the track, with the dream of coming back to drive. Several drivers reported
that they needed to stop on their way home from the track to ‘recover' from
their experience. However, all reported it to be an awesome time, and
definitely have a new perspective on the racing experience.
What ever happened to the young lady from The Passage, or Dan from Community
Corrections? Call and let’s talk about next year!
Doug Adams
For the past months of summer, Mike, a resident at Prospect Place
has befriended a barn spider he’s named Charlotte. She has been living in
the corner reaches of the front window at PP, going about her business quite
unaware of Mike’s diligent eye. Mike has shown such persistent interest in
Charlotte that staff has encouraged him to learn more about barn spiders,
and write a brief piece for the newsletter. With Shanon’s assistance, Mike
submitted the following picture and article, both of which are also on our
web site (www.marathonyouthservices.org):
She enjoys us catching months, June bugs, and any other bugs that meet
her taste and placing them in her web. We enjoy watching her spin and repair
her web in the morning; she works very hard and puts in many hours at doing
this.
At first we thought that she was a common house spider and that she was
going to have babies but we where wrong. Mike spent many hours looking on
the internet and in a book that Josh brought to see what kind of spider she
was.
Charlotte has been a joy to watch over the last couple of months. With fall
and winter right around the corner we will miss her when she goes off to
hibernate. I guess that we will have to find something else to write about
then.
Mike S. (and Shanon)
I’m sure Mike would be thrilled to hear your thoughts about his
interest in Charlotte. He’s willing to write more for the newsletter and web
site, but would like to know what his readers are interested in…send him
comments and questions at prospectplace@charter.net.
Each month Debi McGregor, Community Initiatives Coordinator of The United
Way of Marathon County is kind enough to provide an Asset Of The Month.
I thought the current asset would be of interest to our readers.
Marathon County
Asset Building for Adults
November: Asset #21 – Achievement Motivation
Kids who have this asset are motivated to do well in school.
Clearly communicate to all children that you value learning, that you think school is their most important job and that you want and expect them to take it seriously. Set your expectations high, according to each student’s individual and unique interests and capabilities.
Parents, get and stay connected with teachers. Don’t wait for report cards to find out how your children are doing in school. Encourage motivation from the inside out – tap into their interests and passions and find ways to connect them to what is being taught in school. Avoid "paying" kids for learning with money, rewards or evaluative praise – that becomes motivation from the outside in and will not encourage long-term results.
Be a lifelong learner and learn along with your children. Plan vacations to
historical sites, visit the state capitol as a family, and watch educational
television together. Read the same books and talk about them. Brainstorm
questions that all of you are curious about and then or surf the web to research
the answers.
Health Communities – Health Youth Initiatives
137 River Drive Wausau, WI 54403
715-828-2927
E-mail: dmcgregor@unitedwaymc.org
If you have any questions or program requests, feel free to
contact Doug at 715842-3240 or dadams@marathonyouthservices.org. We are always
interested in your thoughts or comments.